Do you need to get on the same page with your partner as you approach a life change?

Or maybe you can’t get out of the daily grind and simply want to hit the “reset” button to achieve more peace & harmony.

I will guide you to explore what you truly want, identify solutions to your blockers, and create a clear path forward to a shared future you’ll both love.

Outcomes:

  • A shared vision for your lives.

  • Chosen values and habits to support your vision.

  • A roadmap and next steps.

Change Examples

You might be experiencing one or multiple changes at once. Review the different types of transitions or life stages below to help you explore which areas of coaching would be most helpful for you.

  • As you lay a strong foundation for your relationship, you’'ll want to focus on shared goals and dreams, managing finances, planning your family, exploring traditions, all while deepening your emotional and physical connection.

  • You’ll be exploring locations, evaluating finances, and considering long-term implications for your lifestyle and family. You’ll want to get aligned on your priorities and needs to ensure this transition is supportive for both of you.

  • This period involves adapting to new roles and responsibilities, focusing on financial stability, managing stress, and supporting each other’s growth. You’re both making strategic decisions to enhance your careers and ensure fulfilling outcomes.

Transitions

  • Knowing if and when to have your first or an additional child as a couple is a big deal. Are you both ready or just one of you? What do each of you want to have in place before starting a family? What level of effort are you willing to put in if medical intervention is needed?

  • Amid juggling the endless tasks of keeping a new human alive, supporting each other will be key to managing evolving responsibilities and ensuring both of you cope well. You’ll want clarity ahead of time on roles, expectations, community support and how to manage stress.

  • Having school aged children is a different ball game. As their independence increases, so does your own. How do you want to spend this new found time? What new rhythms can be put in place so everyone in the family contributes and gets their needs met?

Parenthood Stages

  • Midlife can feel like a moment where we ask ourselves, “is this it?” The sense of possibility might be blocked by the daily grind of life. This is a powerful moment to explore what you truly want and what steps you can take as a couple to come alive together.

  • With the rising independence of children, you may be rediscovering personal interests, aligning them with shared goals, and nurturing your relationship. Through hobbies or travel you'll focus on enriching your lives together and deepening your bond during this transition.

  • This life shift can bring mixed emotions- excitement, anxiety, and even tension. You’ll want to address potential challenges, realign your goals as a couple, and discover ways to stay connected and supportive during this new phase of life.

Life Stages

Coaching Services

While the exact number of coaching sessions together is flexible, below are general guidelines. Prices are based on a $175 hourly rate.

Tune-Up: 3hrs $525

Ideal if you are looking for focused time to get on the same page before, during or after a life change occurs.

Reset: 6hrs- $1,050

Ideal if you are wanting space to reflect and evolve your thinking over time to uncover your shared path forward.

Deep Dive: 9hrs- $1,575

Ideal if you are going through a more complex or multiple changes at once or you simply want more time to unpack what is present for you.

You can choose to use all of your coaching hours in the same week for a Relationship Sprint, as featured in the SF Standard!

Custom Conversation & Reflection Guides will also be provided as needed to support your work in between sessions.

Get your Free Relationship Sprint Guide Here!

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What Couples are Saying

  • "We achieved something we couldn't have done ourselves. You guided us with care, intelligence, kindness and humor."

    -Ezra

  • "Thank you Sami for making the retreat weekend such a fantasic experience and helping us come to a place that feels so right. "

    -Penny

  • "Wow, wow, wow, wow. We're so excited about this! The outcome was much better than expected."

    -Jared